and that’s final. on tuesday my phone rang and it was my ex, calling to say he hadnt yet gotten the papers notarized but could we talk on friday and have both done the deed and sit down and drink a toast? actually he called about a few things, like how juliet was doing and summertime plans and the movie he’s working on, but after i hung up i realized it was a d-word call. i brought it up. and we did need to talk about it but still.